Story and photos by Michelle Fenelon
Syracuse, N.Y. – Two friends sat side-by-side in Patrick
Mannion’s suite on Wednesday night at NBT Bank Stadium. Mannion, who is one of
the longest-standing suite owners at the stadium, hosts a group of nuns from
around the area once a year.
Sr.
Colette Walter and Sr. E.J. Timson are two of the nuns who shared the most
history with one another. They met when they were both stationed to work at St.
Margaret’s School in Mattydale. And what started out as
a relationship between two colleagues in 1954, blossomed into a 60-year
friendship.
“Sometimes
we’ll go to the movies together or we’ll go out to eat, or we’ll just hang out,
talking,” Walter said. “It’s just a very comfortable, comfortable feeling to be
with her.”
The
Syracuse natives taught together, they’re both sisters of the St. Francis of
the Neumann Communities together. And they enjoy catching an occasional Syracuse
Chiefs game.
So,
when the Onondaga
County Legislature gave the Chiefs a new lease to secure the team for at least
10 years, Walter
said she was pleased. As a long-time attendee of Chiefs games with Timson, Walter
said going to the stadium, which is just seven minutes from where they first met, allows her to enjoy her beloved Chiefs and also spend time with her
sister.
Timson
and Walter dedicate their lives to service while working as sisters of the St.
Francis of Neumann communities. The St. Francis of Neumann Communities are a group
of four congregations from Philadelphia, P.A., Buffalo, Syracuse, and Hastings-On-Hudson in
New York. These four communities formed together to minister to the homeless,
immigrants and any other needs their respective city or state requires at the
time.
While
both sisters belong to the same community, their ministry takes them to
different places.
Carlton,
who’s worked at the Francis House since 2001, provides emotional and spiritual
support to people who are dying. The Francis House serves as a comfortable
place for residents – regardless of race, gender and religion – to stay when
they are dying.
“It’s
good to be supportive for them and their families and to bring God into their
lives at this time in their life,” Walter said.
“Not
everybody can do that because it’s too difficult,” Carlton said in regards to
caring for people who are dying. “I have never found it difficult because I can
always see the progress as it happens.
Timson
conducts fundraisers, such as wine and cheese tasting and golf tournaments to
raise money for retired nuns.
“When
they see me, they say ‘well, here comes E.J., hang onto your wallet,’” Timson
joked.
Sisters
Over the years, Carlton and Timson became more than friends.
“We’re family-oriented friends,” Timson said. “We did
everything as family. My family got to know her family, so we went to
parties, we celebrated birthdays, anniversaries.”
As nuns, who serve the Catholic Church and the community, they say it’s important for them to have a relationship with someone who
enriches their faith in God.
“There’s that support system that you have,” Walter said. “And
there’s always somebody there you can go and talk to that you know God is
present in her and God is present in me.”
Over the years, Carlton and Timson’s friendships has seen
every aspect of each other’s lives – the good, the bad and the illnesses. And
they’ve been by each other every step of the way.
The long-time friends do not live together, and they see
each other on occasion, but although they don’t see each other as often as
they’d like, they say it's ok because they “know the friendship is there.”